""GOLDEN RULES FOR A HAPPY LIFE""

Yes.. life is a beautiful thing & Living it to the fullest is an art.😇😍😎

 NEVER ALLOW THE CHILD INSIDE YOU TO DIE. Don’t let your Childlike nature disappear as you grow old. I always liked to live a cheerful life. According to me, you have one life; so live it to the fullest. Worrying about something in which you have no control upon is just wasting your valuable time. If something is destined to happen then you can’t do anything to stop or change them.

 I am fortunate to have a life partner who knows me so well and supports me in each and every Phase Of Life. ALWAYS SURROUND YOURSELF WITH POSITIVE PEOPLE. They will make you believe in your capabilities. These people brings a lot of positive energy with them.

 Don’t cry for something which is not yours. If someone/something is meant for you then it will definitely come to you no matter what. You do your bit and you will see that everything is falling into place. Always remember that YOU WILL GET YOUR DUE ONE FINE DAY.

 One more thing you can do to let go the negative energy is to avoid the feeling “WHY ME??”.. This question practically has no answer. Basically anything can happen to anyone , any day. Why are you thinking that only you are suffering from it. Bad phases are always followed by some great phases. Just try to involve yourself in whatever makes you happy. Being happy will make you forget all your worries and eventually will help you to stay positive.

 Try to WRITE or SPEAK to someone when you are feeling lonely & sad. Talking about your worries to your loved ones will surely make you feel good. They may not solve it immediately but their advice & concern will help you get through a bad phase. Writing your heart out also helps to feel better. You don’t need to be a born writer to jot down your feelings. It’s as easy as talking to someone, just you have to use your pen instead of your tongue. 😉😉

 TAKE OUT SOME TIME FOR YOURSELF. Utilize this time well. Pamper yourself, do some daily exercise, read something, talk with your best friend, take a power nap etc. etc. If you don’t spend some alone time, you will never understand what you need as an individual. You have your own life too. Taking an hour out of 24 hours of a day isn’t that tough I guess.

||THERE IS NO BETTER WAY THAN LIVING YOUR LIFE YOUR WAY||

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👫💑Made for each other 💏👫

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"" জীৱন যে এক সংগ্ৰাম ""

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" Decisions "

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Otikoi Priyo mur Bandhobi Joni

Thamma....thakur maa....Eti shombudhan... Kintu mur karone asil tekhet egoraki otikoi moromiyal Aaita....Biyar pisor ghor khonot mur prothom bandhobi.. Ajiu monot pore xei mur biya Thik huwar aagor xomoisua loi.... Axomia suwali ahibo Bangali ghorot..Kisu Bhoy Kisu xonka asil tekhet xokolor monot..Karon asil Kisu puroni obhigyota. Xeibur khulusa koi nukuwai shreyo.. Agoraki swadhinota r agor bharotiyo nagorikor tulonai tekhet asil atyonto adhunik..Ki xundor asil tekhetor xei xomoyor Bharat or bornona.bosor 1950 or xei bhoyanok bhoomikompo ti....Xei je badminton khela dinbur...durga Puja Sai Sai ghuri phura ,xahu Aai r xaxon or kotha.. natok aru jatra sua... Koto mojar ghotona..xokolu kotha imman xundor koi bujai koisil je xuni thakileu Mon nobhore.. Amar biyar kotha botora soli asil tetiya. Thamma r mot janiboloi bisorat tekhete uttor disil je.." Aagote ki hoisil xei kotha Bhabi Ami amar naati r jibon or imaan dangor eta xidhannto Lua bhul hobo, tarup...

❤❤ ...DIL KI PARESHANIYAN..❤❤

Kal ki kya baat kare, jab aaj ki nahi khabar… Dhundne ne nikla tha dil jise, sirf wahi naa aaye nazar… Kismet ko khojne aya tha , koi rasta naa koi dagar… Manjil ke itne kareeb aakar, abhi toh tham jaye yeh bhawar… Zindagi mein unhi palon ki aas hoti hain, jab har sham kuch khas hoti hain… Kuch kuch kehke sab kuch ki zaroorat thi.. Kya hain yeh pyas who abhi samajhni baki thi… Aksar hoti thi dil mein dastak…. Par dil kaise sune, yeh toh kisika tha bandhak… Shayad kisiki tamanna thi, aakhon mein yeh kiski tasveer si thi…!! //13th May 2009//

❤❤❤MERA PYAR..❤❤❤

Zindagi ke hasseen pal kahi kho na jaye.. Mere aur mere pyar ke bich koi aa naa paye.. Dil ka dard sunate hain jise, pyar se paas bulate hain jise.. Saanson mein uski meri saansein hain.. Do jism lekin hum ek jaan hain.. Dard ho usko to dil mera roye.. Pyar aaye uspe toh phir ooka naa jaye.. Dil ke itne kareeb..socha naa tha koi milega.. Duur hoke bhi paas..socha naa tha woh rahega!! // 27th April 2009//

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